Friday, June 19, 2009

451 Fridays


451 Fridays is based on an idea from Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury. In his novel, a group of people (Bradbury calls them Book People) are trying to keep the ideas found in books alive. Instead of actually saving the books, the Book People each "become" a book - memorizing it, word for word, and passing it down to the next generation.

451 Fridays asks what books you feel passionate about. What book do you think is so important that you would be willing to take on the challenge of "becoming"?


Today I am especially lucky to have author, world traveler, and all-around cool lady Nadine Dajani share her 451 list with us. You can visit Nadine at her website or blog, and you can also read my review of her novel Cutting Loose. Welcome, Nadine!

What 5 books do you believe are important enough to be saved, and why?

This must be one of the most difficult questions to ask a writer or passionate reader. The thing with books - and what makes them so wonderful - is that there are never too many great books, or worthy ideas. Every single book is worthy for the simple reason that every book expresses a fundamentally passionate desire to communicate and be heard. If we listened more to the passions and the motivations of the people who inhabit our world, we might be facing a different world altogether (and probably a more pleasant one).

That being said, here are my five - a mix of books I read a long time ago and could never shake, and some I recently discovered and wished I had read before.

1. The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood

The first book that came to mind when I thought of important ideas that desperately need to be conserved was '1984', because, really, that book is all about guarding against events and choices that might bring about the scenario you describe in Fahrenheit 451. In 1984, it's not just books that are removed, but the language itself is changed so that people are left with feelings of confusion and discontent but not the words with which to express them. But I'm choosing The Handmaid's Tale because it deals with issues that present the same dangers to individuals and society as those in 1984, but are mostly ignored, probably - or at least partly - because the book is written by a woman and from a woman's perspective (and is therefore considered "feminist" literature instead of just plain literature).

In this book, Margaret Atwood takes the world we live in and spins a worst case scenario of religious extremism. There are no books allowed in Offred's (the handmaid - one of the few remaining fertile women enslaved so they could bear children for the ruling religious class) reality either, except for the bible. Offred - that is, Of Fred, Fred being her "Commander" - can't have access to money or freedom, or "luxuries" of any kind. She is enslaved not so much by the men around her - who are all horny and hapless - but by the bitter women who helped bring about the revolution in the first place.

My favorite thing about this book is how it cleverly shows that those hurt most by this regime are the men (the "Commander" is a perpetually baffled, pathetic figure), because no matter how you look at it, this world needs both men and women, and needs them to be strong and able to affect their destinies however they see fit.

2. The Blue Castle by L.M. Montgemery

I've lost count of how many times I have read and reread this book. Anyone who enjoys Jane Austen's wit will love Valancy Stirling, of the Deerwood "snobocracy". She is a funnier, more daring Elizabeth Bennet, who finds out she has one year left to live, and must decide if she will live this year as she has lived the last 29 - that is, in total misery and under the thumb of her acrid clan - or live it up. The tone and themes are also surprisingly current for something that was written so long ago.

3. Roots by Alex Haley

I read this when I was twelve and remember crying when I got to the end. And I'm not prone to weepiness when it comes to books (at least I wasn't at 12, when hormones hadn't kicked in yet....). Oprah should make everyone read this to get a sense of just how devastating slavery was and why it's important to acknowledge its impact on the American psyche. Ultimately, I think this book is about one man's journey to heal his soul, and it's a journey I think many people need to embark on instead of trying to pretend the past is irrelevant.

4. My Invented Country by Isabel Allende

When I grow up, I want to be Isabel Allende...she is an all-round wonderful writer, so it was hard to choose which one of her books to include. I settled on My Invented Country, a memoir she started after the twin tower attacks, when she finally accepted her American identity and realized that the Chile of her past was in fact her "invented country" because it was distorted by nostalgia and old memories. This book reminds me of the saying: "you can never go home again" and this has been very true in my life. I've relocated many times (Lebanon to Saudi, Saudi to Canada, Canada to the Cayman Islands, and back, and then back again, and I'm only 30!). Every time I left a place, I was never able to find it again because though the place itself might have remained the same, I had changed. This book helped me accept my nomadic experience, and did so in Allende's signature funny, witty, and wise way.

5. The Beginning and the End by Naguib Mahfouz

This was such a sad, haunting, and unforgettable book by a celebrated Egyptian novelist (and Nobel laureate). Like so many books by Arab authors, it was really depressing, but I think that its treatment of gender roles in Arab society is unflinching (and unusual) and for that, this book deserves a special place in literature. It's about a middle class Egyptian family that sinks into destitution when the father dies suddenly, leaving behind a wife, daughter, and two sons still in school. The sons can't support the mother yet (or themselves), so it falls on their sister to use her skill as a seamstress to support everyone until the boys graduate. But since "good girls" aren't supposed to work for a living, the sister becomes a sort of pariah, even to her own brothers, ashamed of having a sister who has to work (yes, the irony and stupidity of this was intentional!). As the boys go through school and their situation improves, the girl's reputation spirals downward until the tragic end. The tragedy is ironic and completely futile, and that's what's great about this book - through the lens of one downtrodden women's life, the absurdity of social mores (and why we need to do away with most of them) is held up to the light.

Of those 5, which book would you choose to "become"?

I think I already "am" My Invented Country, but since that was something imposed on me by circumstance and not by choice, I'm going to go with The Blue Castle. I love the idea of sincerity triumphing over hypocrisy, in a spunky, optimistic way.

Do you have any favorite quotes from the book, so we know why you love it so much?

From My Invented Country:

"Several times I have found it necessary to pull up stakes, sever all ties, and leave everything behind in order to begin live anew elsewhere; I have been a pilgrim along more roads than I care to remember. From saying good-bye so often my roots have dried up, and I have had to grow others, which, lacking a geography to sink into, have taken hold in my memory. But be careful! Minotaurs lie in wait in the labyrinths of memory."

"Writing, when all is said and done, is an attempt to understand one's own circumstance and to clarify the confusion of existence, including insecurites that do not torment normal people, only chronic nonconformists, many of whom end up as writers after having failed in other undertakings."

From The Blue Castle:

"Valancy was enjoying herself. She has never enjoyed herself at a 'family reunion' before. In social functions, as in childish games, she had only 'filled in'. Her clan had always considered her very dull. She had no parlour tricks. And she had been in the habit of taking refuge from the boredom of family parties in her Blue Castle, which resulted in an absent-mindedness that increased her reputation for dullness and vacuity.
'She has no social presence whatsoever', Aunt Wellington had decreed once and for all. Nobody dreamed that Valancy was dumb in their presence merely because she was afraid of them. Now she was no longer afraid of them. The shackles had been stricken off her soul. She was quite prepared to talk if occasion offered. Meanwhile she was giving herself such freedom of thought as she had never dared to take before. She has let herself go with a wild, inner exultation, as Uncle Herbert carved the turkey. Uncle Herbert gave Valancy a second look that day. Being a man, he didn't know what she had done to her hair, but he thought surprisedly that Doss was not such a bad-looking girl after all; and he put an extra piece of white meat on her plate."



Nadine, thank you so much for taking the time to share with us YOUR list of books which must be saved.

Would you like to see your list featured on an upcoming 451 Friday? Send me an email and we will chat!

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Tube Talk with Amy and Elizabeth


Time to talk Supernatural! Amy and I are currently watching season 2, and we chat about several episodes each week. Head over to My Friend Amy, where Amy is hosting our discussions of episode 13, Houses of the Holy, and episode 14, Born Under a Bad Sign.



Episode 15 - Tall Tales

Recap - The brothers need their old friend Bobby's help when they visit a college campus and encounter some pretty bizarre deaths. Can this really be what is seems, or is it simply just another tall tale??

Our discussion - as usual, Amy's thoughts are in red:



I'm not going to have a lot to say, because I didn't really enjoy this episode very much. I understand the concept of the trickster, and now that I know that's what they were dealing with, the episode made more sense, but I didn't really like watching it a whole lot.


I'm sorry you didn't like it! I pretty much laughed through the whole thing.....I loved it. Someone even told me this is their favorite episode of the whole series! The slow dancing alien really cracked me up...Dean was full of great lines, actually.


I was entertained by the segments that showed Sam's version of the story vs. Dean's version of the story - it really illustrated what irritates the brothers about each other.


Yes, it certainly exaggerated things about them, and was very realistic about life on the road or how when you live with someone 24/7, they start to annoy you. It was a nice lighter break from the Dean must kill Sam theme we'd been falling into....a break from the angst and drama.

I assume that leaving the trickster alive at the end means he will come back to mess with the brothers again at some point.

Um, you've watched farther than me, so I guess, but maybe it was just a nice open ending with a trick! ;)

Anything you want to add?? This one just wasn't that great for me.

Again, I thought it was really funny and enjoyed it a lot. But I'm strange like that.


No, I'm sure I'm the strange one - I was just so confused by the tone of this episode! I'm sure it was supposed to be a light, fun break, and I just didn't get it.


Episode 16 - Road Kill

Recap - The brothers meet a young woman named Molly when she runs into the road one night in front of their car. She is scared and disheveled, and tells the brothers she is being chased by a farmer. Is Molly telling the truth? Is it a simple misunderstanding, or is the farmer more spirit than man.....

Our discussion:

As a Battlestar Galactica fan, I was thrilled to see Tricia Helfer as Molly - she's one of my favorites from the series. Did you watch BSG? I bet you'd love it!

I haven't watched it yet. I want to! (she's also quite pretty!)

Wait till you see her as Six on BSG - quite a transformation. =)

Sam and Dean would be some pretty amazing people to find on a deserted road in the middle of the night!!

I would be happy to find them on a deserted road at any time.

I appreciate that for the first time, someone seems apprehensive about the brothers. Their life is SO incredible, and people always just accept it - didn't it seem realistic that Molly was scared of them, especially when she saw their trunk full of weapons?

Yes! I would have been totally freaked out, and she was right to be.


"Salt repells impure and unnatural things - that's the reason you throw it over your shoulder." I had no idea that was the basis for that legend. I love the way this show teaches me things.


I thought the same thing! I was like....oh, so that's the reason!


Best line of the episode - Dean says, "You know, just once I'd like to round a corner and see a NICE house."

I KNOW!!!! I laughed at that!

Why do you think Dean always makes Sam stay behind to guard the person? Is he trying to protect him, or does he just not like dealing with people that much?


I definitely think Sam deals with people better. Dean's almost a little like Bones (do you watch that show?) always saying things as they are without thinking of people's perceptions of it and feelings.


I don't watch Bones, but I've read some of the books - it's on my list of shows to rent someday.

Did you guess that Greely was going to jump through the window and grab Molly? I jumped about a mile high!

Me too!!

I loved the Molly twist!

Very Sixth Sense-ish, so it made sense that Dean called Sam "Haley Joel".

This is the first time they've talked about what happens to the spirits that Dean and Sam kill, and they admit they don't know. Do you think the show's mythology will adopt a traditional "heaven and hell" scenario, or do they have something different in store?


Well, we definitely know there's a hell, so it's hard to imagine there isn't some sort of place for the good people. I thought the whole, "what happens after" was long overdue and I'm surprised it doesn't weigh on them more.



There you have it - our episodes for this week. Are you a Supernatural fan? We'd love to hear from you - let us know what you think about these episodes!

Review - Cutting Loose by Nadine Dajani


Cutting Loose by Nadine Dajani
published 9/08
384 pages


Synopsis from publisher:

Meet three women who are as different as could be—at least that’s what they think—and the men who’ve turned their lives upside down as their paths collide in sizzling, sexy Miami. . . .

Ranya is a modern-day princess—brought up behind the gilded walls of Saudi Arabian high society and winner of the dream husband sweepstakes . . . until said husband turns out to be more interested in Paolo, the interior-decorator-cum-underwear-model, than in his virginal new wife.

Smart, independent, but painfully shy, Zahra has managed to escape her impoverished Palestinian roots to carve out a life of comfort. But she can’t reveal her secrets to the man she adores or shake off the fear that she doesn’t deserve any of it. She also can’t shake the fear that if she holds on to anything—or anyone—too dearly, they will be taken away in the blink of a kohl-lined eye.

Rio has risen above the slums of her native Honduras—not to mention the jeers of her none too supportive family—to become editor in chief of SuĂ©ltate magazine, the hottest Latina-targeted glossy in town, and this in spite of Georges Mallouk, her hunky-yet-clueless boss, and in spite of Rio’s totally wrong but oh-so-sinfully-right affair with the boss’s delicious but despicable younger brother, Joe.

In this city of fast cars, sleek clubs, and unapologetic superficiality, Ranya, Zahra, and Rio wrestle with the ties that bind them to their difficult pasts, and it just might be time for them to cut loose. . . .


My thoughts:

I'm not sure I've read a book that was this much fun in a long time. Things are heading toward summer in my neck of the woods (I say heading, because we've had a pretty gray and gloomy week, but I still have hope), and Cutting Loose just FELT like a summer book. It's set mainly in sunny Miami, and has a light, breezy tone that would make it perfect "sitting in the sun with a tropical drink in your hand" fare.

Dajani's three main characters take turns narrating the novel, and each voice is distinct and developed. I felt an immediate empathy with both Ranya and Zahra - each was facing issues I could completely relate to, and it made me feel a connection to the characters right away. Rio took a little bit longer to click with me, but I came to appreciate her strength and drive, and by the end of the novel was rooting for her as well.

When I say the novel is fun and light, I don't want to imply that it is lacking in depth or emotion. All three women have serious obstacles to face - from money and job situations to difficult family and personal relationship issues, each has to face up to their past and decide which path to take, and how to grasp happiness for themselves. It was this honest journey for each of her characters that kept me turning pages, eager to find out what happened next.

I completely enjoyed this novel. It would make a perfect beach or vacation read! It does contain adult language and situations, so if that bothers you, you might want to steer clear of this one. However, if you are looking for a novel that goes deeper than the usual chick-lit fare, but still retains the fun and romance, I would definitely recommend you pick up this book.

Finished: 6/13/09
Source - the author - thanks, Nadine!
Rating: 8/10

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Be sure to stop back tomorrow as Nadine will be my guest for a special "author edition" 451 Friday!


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